A lot of fellows are writing in concern that they can't bring their partner to orgasm. Well guys, read up and learn some tricks of the trade.
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First, I must open by saying that your brain is the biggest sex organ. If your brain isn't into what is happening to your body, the earth will not move. This is true for both men and women.
The second rule for guys is to not put so much pressure on the women to have an orgasm. If you brag about how you're going to make her scream and cum and she doesn't, instead of rocking her world you may pressure her into faking it so your ego won't be hurt. And guys, women do fake it.
Now, you're almost ready to take the walk but before you do, find out if your partner is in the mood. Don't assume your lover is ready for oral sex. Be sensitive to her wants and wishes. Women have to be willing participants if they are going to allow themselves to relax enough to orgasm. As you go exploring, you don't want your partner to be worried about hygiene or "that time of the month" while you're making your best moves. You want her to be into it as much as you are.
OK, now you're ready! Remember to take your time and don't rush. Make sure she is completely relaxed - a body massage is a nice starting place. It relaxes her while allowing you to map out your strategy. Bonus double hit!
As you move down her body, enjoy the trip: nibble her ears, tickle her breasts, and kiss her side. Once in the scoring zone, begin with your hands, explore the area and get a feel. Now kiss her ever so softly and lightly blow on her lips. Keep using your hands to massage her thighs, talk to her and tell her how much you are enjoying her body. Reassure her every step of the way and ask if she likes what you are doing. Have her guide you as well. After all, she is the mistress of her domain and knows best, no matter how great you think you are.
Explore with your tongue and lick her clitoris. Most women are orgasmic through clitoral stimulation. Remember don't be too rough. If she is stimulated, her clitoris will be sensitive. Use your tongue in different patterns, some guys spell out the alphabet or her name. Don't forget your hands and fingers. While your tongue tastes her clitoris, use your finger to stimulate the inside of her vagina. Be creative in your touch. Use your lips to kiss and tease her.
As you are racking up points, feel her body as she moves. Is she into it or bored to pieces? Listen and watch her to know if she is enjoying your moves. And don't be afraid to ask her what she wants.
If she has reached climax, congratulations, a job well done! If she hasn't and time has passed, move on. Don't stay down there damned and determined to make her orgasm. Remember points one and two? Also, don't let it bother you. Maybe the night wasn't the night, but don't let that stop you from future exploration.
